I had a meaningful conversation with my husband over dinner last night. All of a sudden he asked me: So, Where Do You Wanna Go First? I really got confused because it wasn't even related to the current topic we're having. Then, he ellaborated: I mean, if we're to travel, where do you wanna go first? I want to go to Atlanta, visit your home and meet your (my husband's) entire clan. Then, we plan from there. America is a very big country, each State has a lot to offer.
As how I explained it to him...
My view of travelling is experiencing their life, culture and traditions. Of course, part of it, is to relax or to destress. Shopping? not really, I can go shopping anytime, anywhere without leaving Manila. Part of my travelling agenda is to learn about the history of the country or town. Also to enjoy its famous delicacy.
Being married to a person who grew up travelling, is one of the things I am very thankful for.
I learn through his stories, the purpose why he went to visit that certain country. Same coming from another individual. I just can't stop asking questions.
In a way, even if I haven't been out of the Philippines, I can say, I know a lot about travelling "per se". Watching lifestyle/travel channels, reading various magazines and books helps me refresh my mind and it adds knowledge.
Over-all, nothing beats the experience when you personally go, ride the plane and set foot on your dream destination. One of the things that didn't push through in 2008 was our US trip. Everything was all set. Everybody was pretty excited for us. But my husband had to take an offer. Something that everyone (if in his place) could never resist. We had to stay.
In 2009, there are bigger priorities at hand than travelling. Schooling and hoping for another angel to join the family. But we'll never know...One of the goals I have for this year is to travel. If not the US, within Asia or at least far north of the country.
For now, all I can enjoy is having great travel conversations with my husband. Planning, just in case we're given the time and space to actually go anytime we wanted to.
Have a blessed week everyone!
Big Warm Hugs!