I Have A Life---edited

19 May 2009

I saw a friend a few weeks ago. Of course that person mentioned how entertaining my site is. I was expecting a good conversation with that person since we didn't see each other for the longest. I got disappointed with the joke that person told me.

This is the second incident that somebody tried to interfere or let's say disturb the things I do. For this matter, if you don't like what I am doing, then don't read my blogs. Who asked you anyway.
It's the manner how the joke was said. This, I'll take it as a warning (for me). Meaning I am not very fond of somebody joking with what is basically keeping me happy and light. So I'll try avoiding these kind of situations. To be fair with the other party too. If I offended anybody, I'm so sorry but this is how it goes. I am taking blogging literally as an online diary/journal.

I never question or joke around somebody else's interest. I greatly respect anything good that makes a person happy and fulfilled.
On the question on why it seems like I'm in front of the computer all the time...

It's Time Management. That's how I run my life and my family's. Hey, I'm a housefwife. What do you expect me to do on my "free time".
I'll be honest. There were times when I wasn't able to get things done the right way. Personal things. But eventually, I was able to set them according to what was needed to be prioritized. From being A Mother, A Wife and A Parent, not to forget as A Housekeeper. My world goes around within these 4 roles. Self will just pop-up when I think it is essential.
And this is the beauty of blogging. Right here at this very entry. I am sharing my thoughts, my emotions, my life. And it doesn't have to be specific. A simple human being will truly understand what I mean.
It doesn't have to take a person to become a blogger to appreciate the existence of having an online journal.

15 comments:

fedhz said...

Hello Mommy Enchie. hm.. I don't know if I get this right... sometimes, when people comment we don't know if that's a compliment or whatever, sometimes, we just don't like the way they said it.

People miss a lot of things. they don't bother to peek what's in between. Like when someone comments when I'm using my mp3, "wow, si Mommy pa mp3-mp3 na lang". parang iniisip nila na pa cool cool na lang, that I don't take care of my kid at kung ano ano pa iniisip nila. Di nila iniisip na, baka audio book yun pinapakinggan nya "How to manage your stress or how to handle this kind of people" hehehe.

nakakainis talaga. iniisip ko na lang, "you don't know my life, b*tch!" hahaha!

korek, itong blog natin ang breathing space natin diba. walang pakelamanan hehe.

Enchie said...

oo nga fedhz, sinabi mo. wala na lang pakialamanan. may mga sarili-sarili naman tayong buhay. and this is our (well, for me) my form of outlet.

Beng said...

i agree with you mommy ench! sabi nga di ba we have to love ourself daw..eh kung this is what we love to do..keep it going!

Chris said...

those who dont understand what blogging is -- wont appreciate it.

there are a lot of people who appreciate what you do :)

onlinemommy said...

Hayaan mo na lang sila dear. Don't allow them to ruin your mood... mahal magpa unat ng mukha dahil sa wrinkles hihihi...

I agree with mommy chris, don't mind them if they don't appreciate what you are doing because a lot of appreciate it :D

God Bless!

Willa said...

Some people are just simply insenstive. Ako din minsan, tinatanong ko sarili ko,parang I spent too much time online nga ba, then I realized, yeah i do, but it's a part of my lifestyle, some people spent their day shopping, so it's just so happen that I choose to spent it online and I love doing it, tama ka, wala na lang pake-alaman,kanya-kanya lang iyan eh!

Babette (Lifetime Mom) said...

Hi Enchie, he's just a tactless person whose opinion doesn't matter. Keep on blogging. :o)

Ebie said...

I would say, keep a tight upper lip. Continue what you love to do.

joy said...

hi ench! it's really disappointing to hear those remarks, but just shrugged it off, what is important is you know what keeps you happy and continue doing those things that interests you regardless of what other people have to say.keep on blogging. have a happy day.

Enchie said...

I appreciate all the support ladies! Blog all the way! Cheers to us!

Evan's Mom said...

Time management indeed, and let's make sure people know we're the manager of our own life :)
I'm good mommy, thanks for the message. I'm at my second trimester now, lesser morning sickness. But I lost my blogging mood, help me, lol. Take care.

Pacey said...

Sometimes people think they are in the right position to judge or comment something on what you most often do and have passion for. I may just be so detached, not a pessimist but I just don't mind whatever they think as long as I enjoy it. It might have to do with culture too..Tribal attitude.

pehpot said...

they would never know what is happening in between page loads.. di nila alam na while browsing we are mopping the floor or while typing an entry we are waiting for the pork to boil.. hehe

Make or Break

Enchie said...

Hi Pacey! that's a good attitude, I'm trying to keep it that way too.

Enchie said...

And Mommy Peh, connect na connect ako sayo. Hehehe! in between I wait for the rice to ccok, wait for the meat to tenderize, after mopping i rest and check what's new on my blog.

 
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